I like to tell people that becoming annoyed at a non-physical irritant is simply a choice a person makes. Which is why it's sort of ironic that I get so bothered about certain things.
For instance, I have this thing about having the radio on when I'm trying to go to sleep. It's certainly in my head, but I have, in the past, had a difficult time drifting off if there is noise that demands my attention. The reason this is an issue is because bro is all about having the radio on as he drifts off to sleep. Furthermore, it tends to stay on throughout the entire night, because no one is awake to turn it off.
The last two nights he's turned it on "real quiet." Hmmph! You know how a radio being "real quiet" is! It's real quiet until everything else is real quiet, then it's not real quiet at all, but very intelligible.
But I guess I've overcome it, let go, something, because I've gotten to sleep the last few nights.
And another thing I'm currently fighting obsessive tendencies toward is "the open door." See, when the bedroom door is ajar warm air rushes up, so to preserve coolness you have to keep the door shut.
So let's say I'm sleeping and Randy needs to come up to his closet to retrieve something. As soon as he starts up the stairs I, of course, have awakened and immediately start thinking about whether he'll leave the door open. He comes in, turns the light on, and
leaves the door open. When he does, I croak, and he assures me that it'll only be a minute 'til he goes down again. A minute's way too long for me, because I can feel it getting hot already (I've begun to sweat), so I stumble out of bed to shut the door.
And of course, if someone is preparing to leave the room as I lay in bed half-awake, I must remind them to shut the door all the way.